Thursday, May 9, 2019

(225) Sr. Maria Colabella: From Papal Volunteer to Maryknoll Missionary..........An Instrument of God That Communicated His Love on Three Continents

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Sister Maria Colabella - a life serving God, His Church, and His people.


       Today, May 9 is Sr. Maria Colabella’s birthday.  I couldn’t find a better way to celebrate my friend’s birthday and her life than to reflect, research, and write this article to share with you.  She is a great model for women.  Sr. Maria would have been 79 years old, but went to the Lord on March 19, the Feast of St. Joseph, the patron of a happy death.  She could not have chosen a better day to die.  Before joining the Maryknoll Sisters, Maria was a lay missionary on two continents, first in Nigeria, training nurses, and later in Peru.  
       Maria Colabella has been my sister Papal Volunteer since 1968.  Once one becomes a Papal Volunteer (PAVLA, a lay missionary group), there remains a fraternal bond among us for the rest of our lives.  After our time as lay missioners, a certain missionary spirit also remains, whether we later follow the religious or the lay life, be it as a single person or raising a family while following a career in serving God and His people.  Maria chose a permanent commitment as a religious and entered the Maryknoll Sisters congregation in 1978 at the age of 38.  For a series on the Papal Volunteers for Latin America see blogs #61-65 of this same blog at paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com.
   
        At the Universidad Católica de Santa María in Arequipa, Perú Fr. William Morris, an American Marianist priest and the founder in 1962 despite leftist resistance, was still Rector before all American volunteers and religious were evicted in 1974 after a takeover by leftist students and professors.  Maria taught in the Nursing School (1968-1972) and I taught Chemistry to future Science teachers along with Economic Development and Marketing to the business students.  Once I got a deep cut in the lab.  Maria was in the next building and fixed me up; I was ready to go.

         Maria’s boss was Sister Cristóforos, a German nun who started the Nursing program.  She was really a go-getter, persuading the West German Government to finance the construction of the three story 15 room Nursing School and equipping it.  Sr. Cristóforos is the type who can go into an appliance store and come out with a donated refrigerator.  She ruled with a quiet but iron hand, putting out great nurses. We joking called the nursing school the “4th Reich”.  It was a joy teaching Nursing Statistics to a great group of nursing students.  One of them became a Maryknoll nun who is still active.

Maria’s personality can be best described by the virtue of kindness.  She was fun to be with and had a great sense of humor.  Sr. Maria loved people and communicated in good Spanish with a Brooklyn accent.  Her colleague on the Nursing Faculty, Virginia Mieghen Wessing spoke Spanish with a thick Boston accent.  She could have lived in a modest room in the middle class neighborhood near the University, but chose to live in a pueblo joven with the poor and commute to the University on two crowded buses.  Her social life was with her neighbors and occasional get-togethers with the American religious and Papal Volunteers.

       I left Peru in 1980 after my father’s death to teach at the Franciscan University of Steubenville and be closer to my widowed mother and ailing brother.  I went into Academia and Maria continued her work with the poor in medical and pastoral ministry, such as ecclesial communities while a Maryknoll missionary in Peru, Nicaragua, and in the vicinity of New York City doing home care when health problems brought her home.  See http://www.maryknollsisters.org/sister-maria-colabella for details of her biography and a video.
 
      Even as a Papal Volunteer in Peru, Maria had a heart problem with the Mitral Valve.  As a Maryknoll Sister, she had at least three open heart surgeries.  Her faith and courage in confronting all of this was beautiful, offering it all up to the Lord as a prayer for the missions.  We had Sr. Maria on our prayer list at St. Louis Church in Gallipolis, Ohio.  She would not let a heart problem stop her from serving God and the poor in medical and pastoral ministry in Latin America, later home care and family health programs with the Dominican Sisters in the USA.


Papal Volunteer Maria Colabella and her ability to communicate Christian love which was so much a part of her. 
   
       On her deathbed Sr. Maria  made the effort to call and inform me that a colleague of ours in Peru, Sr. Catherine Schulyer or Sr. John Emanuel, a sister of St. Joseph, died at the age of 107.  May they both have a happy reunion at the feet of the Lord.  Let us pray for the repose of their souls.  Sr. Catherine was another character.  She taught literature with a great missionary spirit and enthusiasm……to teach Christian values.  She begged and borrowed gems of literature from the United States Information Service and went to the kid’s house if the student did not return the book.  We shared a shed on campus……half for my Chemistry lab and half for her English Lab.  We both taught in Spanish in a loud voice with enthusiasm.  Once my big mouth was a little too much for her and she then shouted in jest across the wall in English:  “Shut up, Paul”.  Because she was so unique and demanding, some students nicknamed her Juana la Loca and me as Zapatón because of my big feet.  Other great St Joseph nuns out of Albany, NY who worked with us include Sr. Mary Joseph who taught in the Nursing School as well as Sr. Estair, Sr. Dolores, Sr. Amelia, and Sr. Loyola, a cadre who taught English.
  
Over the years we kept in contact.  In 2011 Sr. Maria was working in home care programs in New Rochelle, NY.  My wife Jaga, daughter Stephanie, and son Joseph came for the 50th Anniversary of the Ordination of Fr. Joseph Kowalczyk, a Maryknoll priest who worked with us at the Universidad Católica as a Physics and Religion professor.  He’s a former electrical engineer for GE and had a ham radio station in Peru.  Besides helping out at the local Maryknoll Parish, El Pilar, he ran a House of Formation for seminarians.
 

   We stayed at a motel a half hour away since Maryknoll was also celebrating the 100th Anniversary of its founding (See http://paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com/2011/10/maryknollers-century-spreading-gospel.html).  After informing Sr. Maria where we were, she visited and quickly told us that this cheap motel we found on-line is a dump, so to speak.  She got us out of there and the next night we found a great motel (50% off) for the same price.  


At Maryknoll Maria treated us like royalty with such warm hospitality; we had a marvelous time; what a great reunion!  Sr. Maria had the nuns invite us for dinner and it was such a joy meeting several nuns that I knew in Peru, including Sr. Elizabeth Roach, a former student of mine.  Sr. Elizabeth, 91 and supposedly retired, was director of the library and still writes children’s books about the missions......great for fostering mission awareness. She also makes author visits all over the world with classes to teachers and children over Skype.  Go to www.amazon.com and search for Elizabeth V Roach.

It was also a great joy to meet a number of retired Maryknoll priests and nuns at the two center houses.  They are old, but still spry……unable to go back into the missions, but still able to live a life of prayer for the missions as St. Theresa, the Little Flower did from her convent.  We and the entire Church owe them a great debt of gratitude for 50, 60, 70 years serving God, His Church and His people in Asia, Africa, and Latin America.  Sr. Paulita Hoffman served for 85 years.  Maryknoll does a wonderful job in taking care of its veteran missionaries unable to continue abroad.  

      Thank you my Sister Maria for all that you have done.  Please pray that we have another joyful reunion in eternity.  A Dios y con Dios (to God and with God), Maria until we meet again.     



APPENDIX

Our Sister Maria Colabella went home to God
today, March 19, 2019 at 11:53 a.m.
at The Maryknoll Sisters Center.
She was born on May 9, 1940
in Brooklyn, New York,
and entered Maryknoll on September 2, 1978.


We rejoice with our Sister Maria
in the new life she now enjoys.
She now knows, with all the saints,
what is the breadth and length and height
and depth of God’s Love that surpasses all knowledge.


January 28, 2014

Sr. Maria is a former Papal Vounteer who taught in the Nursing School of the Universidad Catolica de Santa  Maria in Arequipa and lived in a slum with the people. She will be undergoing open heart surgery.  Please pray for a successful operation.  She's described on http://www.maryknollsisters.org/ and in the Blog #65 of http://paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com.  This is at least her third open heart surgery.  She's a joyful warm warrior for the Lord.  Thanks and God bless.
        

 ---- Forwarded Message -----
From: Greetings <mcolabella@aol.com>        
 To: paulrsebastian@yahoo.com
 Sent: Saturday, January 25, 2014 8:13 PM                                  
 Subject: Greetings

Dear Paul and Jaga,

Loving greetings to you and all in your lovely family.

It was so good to hear from you at Christmas, and catch up on all your news.
I send very belated Christmas and New Year's greetings now, apologizing for being so late.:-(
Hope this finds you all well........

Besides sending you this greeting, I write to request your prayers at this time.  On Monday, February 3rd, I will be undergoing another open heart surgery ---this time to replace my Mitral valve.  (In 2005, it was repaired).
Knowing that you and other dear family and friends are praying for me, and the Medical team, means a lot.
Thanks so much......

I think of you often, and the time you were at Maryknoll.  It was great. 
Hopefully, my new mitral valve will also get to meet you soon...................:-)
Much love abrazitos
Maria

  
Sister Maria Colabella
"For me one of the greatest joys of this ministry is the opportunity to work and share with people of many different cultures and races. As a missioner who has been so graciously received in other cultures, I now welcome the opportunity to be a welcoming presence to people from other lands."
Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY, Maria Colabella began three years of nursing studies at Long Island Hospital School of Nursing; obtained her B.S. in Nursing from St. John’s University; was Head Nurse and Instructor at Long Island College Hospital for six years, and served as a Public Health Nurse for the Visiting Nurse Association.

She worked with the Catholic Mission Board in Ado Ekiti Nigeria and joined the Papal Volunteers, teaching Nursing at Universidad Santa Maria in Arequipa, Peru. In association with the Dominican Sisters from Columbus, OH, she worked in Chimbote, Peru.  It was in Peru that she met Maryknoll Sisters and realized she wanted to make a life-long commitment to serve the poor in religious life.

Entering Maryknoll in 1978, Sister Maria was assigned to work in Ocotal, Nicaragua where she spent five years as a nurse in government health programs. She was involved in formation of Basic Ecclesial Communities and home visiting of the sick. Upon her return from Nicaragua she completed her studies at Maryknoll School of Theology, receiving an MA in theology.

After another year in Lima, Peru again in medical and pastoral ministries, Sister Maria has found mission in her own backyard. As a member of the Maryknoll Sisters Eastern U.S. Region, she worked in a home care program in Brooklyn for eight years, meeting people from all over the world, both homebound patients and their attendants. In the Bronx she worked at Siena House, a shelter for homeless young families. Presently she lives in New Rochelle, NY and works with the Dominican Sisters Family Health Services, Ossining, visiting patients from Latin America in their homes who are in need of maternal and child care. In 2009 she received Recognition for ten years of Nursing Service with Dominican Sisters Family Health Services.

Tuesday, April 30, 2019

(224) A Mother's Day & Senior Night on the Gallia Academy Baseball Field in Gallipolis, Ohio

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         It was a beautiful afternoon for baseball; it was Beverly Faro Day and Senior Night in the game between Gallia Academy and Coal Grove High School.  Mother’s Day came early for her.  After all, she’s like a mother to her son’s close friends on the team.  
 
   Beverly is valiantly fighting Stage 3 breast cancer.......painful chemo for now with radiation and surgery in the future.  May all she’s going through make her a saint as she gets closer to God and trusts.  Beverly Faro has faced much adversity like a champion with an abundance of resilient faith, strength, and courage.  

           All refreshment receipts and raffle tickets went for her treatment.  The players wore pink socks and pink belts in a show of support.  A beautiful act of Christian love was how the fans, boosters, and players rallied to give their support, not only for Beverly Faro, but also for all women suffering from breast cancer.  There's so much evil in the world; yet so much heart warming good in people.

       Beverly and Dr. David Faro are raising five children: D.J., a medical doctor in residency at EAMC/WVU; John, a student at the University of Cincinnati Medical School; Kimberly a graduating senior at Kent State University set to enter the Ohio State University Pharmacy School; Jacob, a Chemistry major at the University of Rio Grande; and Josh, a senior at Gallia Academy.  To help them all through college, Dr. David works as a VA Podiatrist and Beverly has worked the night shift skillfully sanitizing vats at Bellisio Foods in Jackson, Ohio.  Last year, this mother of five stated:  “I would make any sacrifice for my children”.

         In addition Beverly and her husband David lovingly took in a little girl named Allison as one of their own children for ten years until her birth family was able to solve its problems.  Today she’s studying to become a nurse practitioner.  That generous love is making a difference in a person’s life.
       
A Baseball Mom and Wife. Her son Josh started at first base and pitched two scoreless innings (the 3rd & the 4th) with five strikeouts and no hits.  This was memorable because he could not pitch since the beginning of the season when the muscle in his elbow tightened because of a shoulder problem.

 Josh’s older brother, John played left field for Gallia Academy before graduating in 2013.  He was the only Gallia player to hit a home run out of the ball park built in 2009.  It was a 350 foot drive over the wall in left-center field.  He happens to be my daughter Naomi’s boy friend.

  His father shared a gem of wisdom regarding Josh's injury: “God has given Josh a talent as a gift.  He can give and He can take away”.  Our Lord must have permitted Josh’s injury for a reason that will make him a better person. God's perspective is eternity.  Dr. Faro loves baseball and is very knowledgeable of the game.

 At another game he added: “Every person is dealt a hand of cards and we must deal with it.”  May we all deal with inevitable adversity with faith, courage, and prayerful trust in God that He will help us to get through it and things will work out for the best in the long run.


Josh Faro throws another strike.


          Only a few days before on April 25 Josh was given clearance for 20 pitches including warm-ups by the sports medicine physician at Marshall University for the next two weeks.  This raises hopes that he can pitch a few critical innings in the playoffs when he will be cleared for 40 pitches.

        Last year’s pitching ace, Josh Faro carried his team into the second round of the playoffs before losing 1 - 0 to Hillsboro in extra innings.  His 2018 stats were outstanding……. a 9 – 1 win-loss record with a 1.13 earned run average over 68 1/3 innings with 108 strikeouts and only 17 walks.  Josh has already been awarded a full tuition scholarship to play baseball for the University of Rio Grande and major in Chemistry and Biology.  He should be 100% by then (see Blog #209 https://paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com/2018/10/every-little-league-pitcher-dreams-of.html for details, including a video and an interview of Josh).  

Josh Faro signs his letter of intent and accepting his full tuition scholarship at the University of Rio Grande in March.  Josh is flanked on the left by his father, Dr. David Faro and on the right by his mother, Beverly Faro and his brother, Jacob Faro.  Standing are GAHS Assistant Jack James, GAHS Head Baseball Coach Justin Bailey, University of Rio Grande Head Coach Brad Warnimont, 2018 Head Coach Rich Corvin, and GAHS assistant Jeremy Brumfield.

         The score was tied at 3 - 3 in the last half of the 6th inning and a man on third.  Josh Faro came up to bat and drove in the winning run with a solid hit over 2nd base.  THAT HIT WAS FOR MAMA!!!  He then scored the insurance run on a two out single by Morgan Stanley to make the final score Gallia Academy 5 Coal Grove 3.  For more detail on the game and action photos see
https://www.mydailytribune.com/sports/39608/gallia-academy-sweeps-hornets-5-3.

        Post game, the parents processed with their senior sons, including Dr. David and Beverly Faro with their son Josh, a fitting end to a great day.  It was a privilege for my wife Jaga and I to be there and witness it all.

 

Beverly and Dr. David Faro process with their son Josh on Senior Night from the 3rd base to home plate.
         Prayers are powerful.  Please pray for Beverly Faro.  She still has a tough road ahead.  Your prayers can make a difference.

      The seniors honored are in the photos below.

Head Coach Justin Bailey on the far left with his seven graduating seniors 3-Brendan Carter, 4-Morgan Stanley, 1-Cole Davis, 27-Garrett McGuire, Assistant Coach Craig Sanders, 9-Wyatt Sipple, 11-Josh Faro, and 10-Justin McClelland.

From left to right seniors Wyatt Sipple, Josh Faro, and Garrett McGuire.

       Postscript.  Josh Faro completed his career at Gallia Academy, holding every pitching record except two.......number of complete games and number of innings pitched.  Those two records really were not possible because of a new rule limiting the number of pitches without at least a day or two of rest to protect the arms of the young pitchers.  Nevertheless, Faro still had arm problems that limited his post high school career.  He probably would have needed Tommy John surgery with a risk of arm pain throughout his life.  Certainly Josh Faro will some day be inducted into the Gallia Academy Sports Hall of Fame.  He hopes to continue in baseball as a pitching coach.  To be able to reach young kids who don't know where they are going is a very noble calling. 

Sunday, April 21, 2019

(223) Living With Christ During the Easter Season Through Images of the Holy Land

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The empty tomb within a shrine enclosed by the Church of the Holy Sepulcher..
Mary Magdalene and the other Mary came to see the tomb.  And behold, there was a great earthquake; for an angel of the Lord descended from heaven, approached, rolled back the stone, and sat upon it.  His appearance was like lightning and his clothing was white as snow.  The guards were shaken with fear of him and became like dead men.  Then the angel said to the women in reply, "Do not be afraid!  I know that you are seeking Jesus the crucified.  He is not here, for he has been raised just as he said. Come and see the place where he lay (Matthew 28:1-6).  

Then they went away quickly from the tomb, fearful yet overjoyed, and ran to announce this to his disciples.  And behold, Jesus met them on their way and greeted them. They approached, embraced his feet, and did him homage.  Then Jesus said to them, "Do not be afraid. Go tell my brothers to go to Galilee, and there they will see me" (Matthew 28:10).  The brothers were all stunned and incredulous “for they did not yet understand the Scripture that He had to rise from the dead” (John 20:9) as Our Lord told them.
 
       Resurexit sicut dixit!  He is risen as He truly said!  Alleluia!  Thus we relive this great day in salvation history as well as world history.  Jesus Christ said that He would rise from the dead on the third day of being crucified and He did…….no other person in world history can make that claim.  This gave much greater credibility to His teaching.   The biblical accounts are considered to be valid historical documents.  

        Our Lord went through an arduous passion like no one ever endured since medically it is doubtful anyone else would have survived it for as long as He did……all to make reparation for countless sins.  The Son of God made the ultimate sacrifice of Himself for each one of us…….such was His infinite love for you and me.  No sacrifice of reparation could satisfy the Father; only His dearly beloved Son could.

At His death, Jesus descended into the netherworld of Abraham, the prophets, and their followers…….waiting centuries for the day of redemption.  Christ indeed made reparation for the great sin of Adam and Eve as well as all of the sins of the world past, present, and future.

      Looking into the Empty Tomb in the Church of the Holy Sepulcher.

At His Resurrection the gates of Heaven were opened to all of mankind who remain faithful.  That includes you and me.  Jesus won for us the victory over evil and death.  Therefore Easter is a day of such joy for us all.  Because Jesus rose from the dead, so can we rise from the dead to new life in Heaven……"No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love him"  (1Corinthians 2:9).  

This was really the second Passover.  The holy people and prophets of the Old Testament were waiting up to 4000 years to be freed from the bondage of original sin and pass over into Heaven.  We are freed from the slavery of sin and death and journey through the desert of life and pass over into Heaven as long as we remain faithful to Christ and His Church.  

Sooner or later each one of us will have to undergo a passion of our own because there is no resurrection without the passion.  Thus there is meaning to suffering and accepted with faith and trust will make us saints.


           The Dormition of Mary Church next to the Upper Room on Mt. Zion in Jerusalem.
      The site of the tomb of David is next to the church.  According to tradition, Mary

                did not die, but fell into a deep sleep and was taken up into Heaven (Her Assumption). 

For fear of the Jews, the apostles were cooped up in the Cenacle or Upper Room shown below.  In his glorified body Jesus was able to go through the walls and appear to His apostles.   As an eye witness, St. John describes it beautifully in his own words:

       On the evening of that first day of the week, when the doors were locked, where the disciples were, for fear of the Jews, Jesus came and stood in their midst and said to them, "Peace be with you."   When he had said this, he showed them His hands and His side.  The disciples rejoiced when they saw the Lord.  (Jesus) said to them again, "Peace be with you.  As the Father has sent me, so I send you."  And when he had said this, he breathed on them and said to them, "Receive the holy Spirit.  Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them, and whose sins you retain are retained" (John 20:19-23).  



  Thus Jesus Christ instituted the sacrament of Reconciliation.  We confess to a priest (as persona Christi or other Christ) so that he can judge whether to forgive or retain sins and give us wise counsel.


The Cenacle or Upper Room, the site of the Last Supper and where Christ appeared to the apostles after His Resurrection.

      The absent St. Thomas did not believe that Jesus appeared to them.  Several days later our Lord appeared again and St. Thomas exclaimed: “My Lord and my God!”  Jesus answered and said to him, "Have you come to believe because you have seen me?   Blessed are those who have not seen and have believed."  Now Jesus did many other signs in the presence of (his) disciples that are not written in this book.  But these are written that you may (come to) believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that through this belief you may have life in His name (John 20:28-32).

The Lake of Galilee where several apostles fished for a living.

        Fishers of Men. On Lake Galilee, pictured above, Peter and several apostles were fishing.  When it was already dawn, Jesus was standing on the shore; but the disciples did not realize that it was Jesus.  Jesus said to them, "Children, have you caught anything to eat?" They answered him, "No."  So he said to them, "Cast the net over the right side of the boat and you will find something." So they cast it, and were not able to pull it in because of the number of fish (John 21:4-6).  They caught 153 fish which was the number of known countries at the time.  They had breakfast together with our Lord, who also ate, showing that He could not be a spirit.  Spirits don’t eat.


A Polish nun meditates during our boat trip on the Lake of Galilee on some of the events on  and along these waters.

Then Jesus asked Peter an important question that He implicitly asks us.  He said to him the third time, "Simon, son of John, do you love me?" Peter was distressed that he had said to him a third time, "Do you love me?" and he said to him, "Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you." (Jesus) said to him, "Feed my sheep” (John 21:17).  Here our Lord made it clear that Peter had a great mission as the leader of the Church, the first Pope and principal shepherd to nurture and spread the faith.  Today Pope Francis, the 265th successor of Peter, has the same mission.



Appendix


See Blog #84 Meditations For the Rosary IV: The Glorious Mysteries



                                        


On the Lake of Galilee and a boat ride.










A School of Fine Arts on the Lake of Galilee.

Jaga and Paul Sebastian on the Mediterranean Sea near Haifa, Israel.