As professor emeritus I continue to attend the University of Rio Grande Commencement every year as well as the special Sunday Mass at St. Louis Church Gallipolis, Ohio for all of the new high school graduates in the parish. I like to give each person I know a hug and a request: “Don’t forget your great mission for God and Country”. Indeed God has a special mission for each one of us and we will not die until we have the opportunity to accomplish that mission to the point that God wills. However, the mission has little meaning and will bear few fruits without a close relationship with God through prayer and trusting in His will. We depend upon Him for His help and strength according to His will. At the same time I give each one of them the following reflection.
GRADUATES & ALL: MAKE A DIFFERENCE FOR GOOD
This is the season for graduation from high school and college and also a time to think: What am I going to do with my life to make a difference for good? Older parents, relatives, and friends should also reflect: In the time I have left, what can I do to make the world a little bit better? Young graduates, never lose the ideals of your youth; don’t fall into the cynicism that age can bring. Never lose your youthful enthusiasm.
AMDG. There is one overriding principle for life: Ad majorem Dei gloriam or its abbreviation often put at the top of letters or other personal writing, AMDG. It is the Latin motto of the Jesuit order which means “For the greater glory of God”. That is to discern God’s will for our lives and try to follow His will in everything we do as we serve Him and His people either as a leader or as a member of a team working with others, all contributing to the family, the community, the parish, and/or the organization that produces a good or a service. Remember the little way of St. Therese, the Little Flower; “Do little things well for the love of God”. Upon getting out of bed every day, say a short morning offering to the Lord everything you do that day.
Every one of us can do something to further Christ’s kingdom on earth……a kingdom where love prevails and people care about each other instead of taking each other…….in the family, in the parish, in the community, in the organization where we work in little or big ways by prayer and example, by word and deed. Work for something bigger than yourself. Even the bedridden can make a most valuable contribution by offering his/her sufferings to God as a dynamic prayer for the Church, the Missions, a better world, and for his loved ones. Every saint had to suffer before reaching glory and sooner or later we will suffer also. Properly taken as a preparation for eternity, suffering can lead to sanctity. “No cross, no crown”. No life is a waste as long as s/he surrenders him/herself to the will of God, prays, tries to love, and aspires to serve others in little or big ways.
Inspiring is the life of Fr. Walter Ciszek, a Jesuit priest. He was a Polish-American who was raised in a tough neighborhood. In the late 1930s Pope Pius XI asked for missionary priests to volunteer to serve the persecuted Church in Soviet Russia. Knowing Polish, Russian was easy for him. So he clandestinely crossed into Stalinist Communist Russia. Finally he was caught and confined to Russian prisons and the Gulag or slave labor camps in frigid Siberia for 23 years. Thinking himself as tough, Fr. Walter thought he could take anything that the Communists could dish out. Trying to maintain control, he was miserable. Finally, Fr. Ciszek surrendered himself to the will of God with complete trust in Him. He attributed every cross to His permissive will in that God generally does not send suffering, but allows it to happen as part of the human condition after the Fall of Man. That complete resignation to the will of God turned his misery into joy as he ministered to those around him, thus making him a saint, now on the road to canonization. In 1963 the U.S. Government traded two Russian spies for his release. He shared his experience to strengthen the faith of the people back home until his death in 1984. You can read his two major books published by Ignatius Press and also available at amazon.com: “With God in Russia” and “He Leadeth Me”.
The Christophers. As a youth in college, I encountered the Christophers, founded by Fr. James Keller, a Maryknoll priest in the 1940s. It has had a profound influence on my life. Christopher comes from the Greek, "Cristoforos", meaning Christ bearer. According to its name, the Christopher movement is directed to the lay person to bring Christ to all segments of Society, especially through the critical professions of education, government, social work, social communications, and labor-management relations.
Their motto comes from the Chinese proverb: "Better to light one candle than to curse the darkness". With such a positive attitude and willingness to serve, you’ll have a happier and more satisfying life. May we light many candles in the classroom, the work place, the home, the parish, in our community activities, and even at social gatherings. And through our children, students, subordinates, or colleagues may we illuminate the entire country, as Fr. Keller envisioned in his book, “You Can Change the World” and “Change the World From Your Parish”.
Their monthly pamphlet, the "Christopher Notes", is quite interesting and have been excellent for my personal and professional development. They've given me many insights and practical ideas about diverse topics of daily living as well as how to be a more effective apostle in whatever state of life and/or job one has. They are very inspirational. You can obtain a free subscription by writing to The Christophers; 12 East 45th St.; New York, NY 10017 or www.christophers.org. They are willing to send them in quantity free to schools and youth groups every month. They also have fine books, videos, and audio tapes. Their TV program, "Christopher Closeup" is great. It's on the Faith & Values channel, EWTN cable and satellite, and on the internet at www.ewtn.com/tv.
Making a Difference Wherever You Are. The Christopher movement has been a great influence upon me since I was an undergraduate in college.....especially their emphasis upon individual responsibility for making the world just a little bit better because of you.....that God has given each one of us a special mission, a mission that He has not given to any other. One person can do little to change the world, but you can do something.....a little today, a little tomorrow, and a little the next day. Then with God's help, the accumulation of many small deeds over a career can add to greatness (grounded in humility).....as great as many noted people in history, who have only one or two major positive accomplishments or contributions, but nothing more. Thus, you can change the world. The key to great achievements and greatness itself is perseverance.....a little every day as God works through each one of us. Continue learning in order to serve God and people more effectively.
Each one of us in our careers touches the lives of hundreds of people. For you, it could be in the thousands someday, especially if you’re in mass communications, a teacher, writer, musician, actor, or a leader. There must be many unknown heroes and saints out there who do their little bit every day for God, Country, community, parish, family, and neighbor. In the inner cities, for example, there are mothers who raise great persons for the Lord despite having been abandoned by their husbands. There are the sick and the hurting who offer their crosses as dynamic prayers for a better world. When you die, nobody will remember nor care how much money you made, but how you enriched other people's lives in little or big ways.....beginning with the immediate family and reaching out to groups or individuals in the work place, the parish, and the community.
Enriching people's lives ---starting with the family is crucial since a child benefits more from and later remembers a parent's time in quality and quantity more than the toys showered upon him or her--- may be just little things........being there when somebody needs help or a patient understanding ear, giving someone a little time even when in a hurry, a kind word of encouragement and praise that reinvigorates, a greeting and a smile that communicates a little love, accepting one who is difficult to like, being patient with one who taxes one's patience. A bit of kindness or just being nice with a big smile that communicates a little love can make a person’s day. I have an ideal and a desire.....that when I die the world will be just a little bit better because of me. We wish the same for you.
Dealing with Failures. Inevitably, at times things will not go well. Occasionally, there will be opposition, criticism, frustration, disappointment, and failure. Offer that up too and don’t give up; don’t quit. Our Lord also values your failed efforts done in loving Him and His people. Remember the words of Blessed Mother of Calcutta: “God does not ask that we be successful, but to be faithful” to Him and the vocation He has called us to. "God doesn't require us to succeed; He only requires that you try." “Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do... but how much love we put in that action.” “We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop.” “If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one.”
From the Christophers, came my ideal of putting Christ into Business and other organizations through our students. Bishop Sheen promoted: “Put Christ into the Market Place”. If every alumnus from your school or every member of your parish, for example, would light just one candle, we could illuminate the whole country.