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Thursday, September 26, 2024

(295) Many Catholic Priests and Knights of Columbus Among First Responders on 9/11

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This photo records the scene moments after one of the two terrorist captured planes crashed into one of the two 110 story towers of the World Trade Center about 9 am on a clear sunny Tuesday morning, September 11 as summer was drawing to a close.  The terrorists actually believed that as martyrs for their cause, they would go straight to heaven and have multiple virgins at their disposal.  My family of six went to the top of one of the towers a year earlier and had a magnificent view of the city, the Bay, and the Statue of Liberty.  Our nine year old daughter, Stephanie actually got lost on the large observation deck.  Probably, everyone over the age of ten at the time can recall where they were on that fateful day.  I arrived at the University of Rio Grande and the staff was watching the events on television.  The students were so afraid of a full scale attack that we had to cancel classes that day.

    The fire departments of New York City, including the boroughs of Manhattan, Bronx, Queens, and Brooklyn immediately responded to rescue as many of the people trapped in the twin towers as they could, despite blinding and suffocating smoke, probably in the hundreds.  It was horrific.  In desperation a number of people jumped out of windows to their deaths before the flames could consume them.  Of the 9,000 or so in each tower a total of about 2,150 people perished in the disaster.  Most on the floors below the impacts were able to escape, thanks in great part to the first responders.  Those in the second tower had a better chance during the sixteen minutes before the second plane hit.

The first responders included not only fire fighters and medical personnel, but also Catholic priests, who counseled and gave absolution.  Many of the first responders belonged to the Knights of Columbus, who followed their ideals of charity and patriotism.  They served with heroism and at least 45 of them sacrificed their very lives in serving.

    Not many know that the Church was right there, helping people of all faiths.  Let us read the account of brother knight, Msgr. Thomas Machalski, from his interview by Knightline and Columbia Magazine.  He was actively involved.  Born in the Queens Borough, Msgr. Machalski was ordained for the Diocese of Brooklyn in 1985 and now serves as pastor of Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Bayside, where he is a member of Ridgewood Council 1814. 

United States flag is posted in the rubble of the World Trade Center at Ground Zero on Sept. 13, 2001.  As during the Cuban Missile in 1962, there was a sudden and substantial increase in church attendance all over the Country.  People were scared and prayed.  Sadly, that return to God did not last.  A monument now stands at the site to honor the over three thousand people who died there.  It can happen again; we must be vigilant.

In 2001, then-Father Machalski was among the priests who ministered to first responders at ground zero in the days after the attack on the World Trade Center.

“Shortly after the attacks, a call went out from the Federal Emergency Management Agency to the Archdiocese of New York and the Diocese of Brooklyn.  They wanted to make sure there were two Catholic priests at ground zero at all times.  So there was never a moment, from the very beginning until the last day of cleanup, that there were not two Catholic priests on duty, 24/7.”

“About 400 of us priests volunteered, and we took six-hour shifts. During the first of four shifts I took — I always had the 12-6 a.m. shift — I was standing right on that smoldering pile that you see in photos and videos, as they were literally pulling buckets filled with pieces of people from that rubble. They would take them into a makeshift morgue, where we would have a small prayer service and bless the body parts, and then go back onto the pile again.

“We were there, really, to provide emotional and spiritual support to the police officers, the firefighters and those who volunteered. They would say things like, ‘We know that you don’t have an answer to this, Father. Nobody does. But we just know God is here when we see you.’  They saw the collar, and that was a sign that God was there with them.”  

“I think our presence also gave a great deal of solace to people who lost family members — to know that if their loved ones’ remains were found, there was a priest who prayed over and blessed them."

    “When I went home and thought about it later, it would bother me that such evil could exist in the world and be perpetrated by one human being against another. But Christ’s example of redemptive suffering allowed me to make sense of what had happened and minister better, I think, to those who were left behind.”

“On Sept. 21, the [New York] Mets played their first game since the attacks, and I had a ticket to the game. It was against Atlanta, our biggest rival, and we were losing in the eighth inning.  But then [Hall of Fame catcher and lifelong Catholic] Mike Piazza got up, and he whacked a home run like you wouldn’t believe. Once he hit that ball, I knew it was gone.”

“That place just — I’m getting emotional just thinking about it — it just exploded. And we won that game. I still look at that moment and think that was God saying, ‘You guys need this’ — not the Mets, but the people of New York.”  Brother knight Msgr. Machalski would go on to become the New York Mets’ Catholic chaplain since 2007.  Read more about Msgr. Machalski’s life and work in this May 2024 Columbia feature on Knights who serve as Major League Baseball chaplains.

Three brother knights who are Catholic Major League Baseball Chaplains.  From left to right are Msgr. Thomas Machalski of the New York Mets, who is described in this article, followed by Fr. Burke Masters of the Chicago Cubs and Fr. Pedro Rivera of the San Diego Padres.

Watch the video produced by the Knights of Columbus, “Service and Sacrifice: Remembering 9/11”at 

www.youtube.com/watch?v=Isd4pUNRGK0 or search for that title at www.youtube.com.   It gives a glimpse of what the first responders went through.  This short film commemorates the heroic work of first responders and priests as well as the K of C Life Insurance Field Agents’ efforts to bring financial assistance to grieving families of First Responders who lost their lives.  The Knights of Columbus raised $1.5 million for the Heroes Fund to help many of the families of over 400 fallen first responders….police, firefighters, medical personnel, etc. regardless of religious affiliation.  At least 45 of the fallen first responders were knights.  Surely, some of the other 2000 victims were also knights.

Having breathed so much toxic fumes and smoke, many of the surviving first responders suffered from chronic ailments for years…..respiratory, cancer, etc. 

Fr. Mychal Judge, a 68 year old Franciscan friar and chaplain of the New York City Fire Department, accompanied his men and was killed when the south tower collapsed. He was the first certified fatality of the attacks. Other priests also put their lives at risk.

It should be mentioned that one of the large financial companies that had many offices in the World Trade Center took care of the families of the personnel it lost in the disaster. 

Upon announcing the annual World Day of Prayer for Peace at the Supreme Convention in Dallas in 2004 and calling people of all faiths to annually observe September 11 as a day of prayer for worldwide peace, former Supreme Knight Carl Anderson made the following statement: "TERRORISM AND THE TERRIBLE TRAGEDY OF SEPTEMBER 11, 2001, PRODUCE MANY EMOTIONS, RANGING FROM ANGER TO PROFOUND SORROW. BUT AS WE RECALL THE LOSSES OF THAT AWFUL DAY AND HONOR THOSE WHO DIED, WE SHOULD ALSO REMEMBER THAT PEACE AND UNDERSTANDING, NOT REVENGE AND RETRIBUTION, MUST BE OUR ULTIMATE GOAL. WE CAN BEST ACHIEVE THAT GOAL BY RAISING OUR VOICES TO GOD, REMINDING HIM THAT WE SHARE HIS DEEP AND ABIDING DESIRE FOR PEACE ON EARTH, AND ASKING HIS DIVINE GUIDANCE AND HELP."



Saturday, June 19, 2021

(253) Juneteenth: Reconciliation, Racial Equality, Racial Harmony, and Racial Justice.....But Not With the Fist

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Reconciliation, Racial Equality, Racial Harmony, and Racial Justice, but not with the fist!

    It was June 19, 1865. Two months had passed since General Robert E. Lee surrendered on April 9,  marking the end of the Civil War.  On paper all slaves were free. However, there were still holdouts in Texas who refused to free their slaves and at least make them paid sharecroppers. Finally, the union army freed them. Thus we celebrate Juneteenth Day, recently passed by Congress with a large bipartisan majority and signed by President Joe Biden, that commemorates the liberation of the last slaves in Texas on June 19, 1865.

    The Catholic Church Under Pope Paul III was among the first to condemn slavery of any sort in 1537 particularly in the New World. Only recently has slavery become illegal in every country of the world. For a timeline since the sixth century B.C. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_abolition_of_slavery_and_serfdom.

   Slavery is a huge blot upon our history.  Although the evil of slavery was eliminated, it morphed into other evils……segregation, racism, prejudice, unequal treatment, and racial violence.  Only a conversion of heart can conquer evil. 

      But let us also remember that 360,000 whites of the Union Army died to abolish slavery.  However, the fist symbolizes violence and that is not the way to go nor will the so called critical race theory solve any problems because it breeds bitterness among blacks rather than reconciliation. Yes we should feel guilty as a nation, but to say that we are a racist society is ridiculous, although there are certainly vestiges of racism that remain among some people and must be eliminated by education and promotion.

    Slavery became an institution in the United States. We are paying for that great collective sin, (perhaps analogous to the original sin of Adam & Eve that every newly born child bears until Baptism) in the racial unrest and strife that we have today. We ask for forgiveness. There's no other way to achieve reconciliation and racial harmony.

Barack Obama 44th President of the United States (2009-2017)

   Blacks have come such a long way since 1963 when I was the officer in charge of a bus of army reservists heading to North Carolina from Baltimore for summer training. I refused to have the troops eat at any restaurant that would not serve all of my men including a handful of blacks. I made sure that everybody eats or nobody eats. After a couple of restaurants refused to serve our black soldiers, I finally found one that did accept all of us.


Dr. Ben Carson

    Indeed 75 years ago it was only a dream that a black man would become President of the United States, that Dr. Ben Carson would become a renowned neurosurgeon and Secretary of Housing and Urban Development in the Trump Administration. That Clarence Thomas would become a Supreme Court judge, succeeding another black Supreme Court judge......Thurgood Marshall who served from 1967 to 1991.

Supreme Court Justice Thurgood Marshall

    That Four Star General Colin Powell would become Secretary of State to President George W. Bush. In the same Republican administration Condoleezza Rice succeeded him and is currently Director of the Hoover Institution at Stanford. That Susan Rice would become Ambassador to the United Nations and National Security Advisor in the Obama Administration.

Four Star General Colin Powell

     That only recently Elaine Bryant, a black woman would be named police chief of a major American city, Columbus, Ohio.  She is responsible for 1,900 police officers.  Police Chief Bryant was chosen for her experience in community relations, emergency preparedness, strong administrative background as well as investigative and proactive policing while Deputy Police Chief of Detroit and previously commander of the city’s major crimes unit.  Bryant promised inclusion and equity for all. Mayor Andrew Ginther lauded her experience, sound judgment, empathy, and a commitment to community policing.

Columbus, Ohio Police Chief Elaine Bryant

    That so many blacks have served in both the Trump and the Biden administrations, both conservatives and liberals, Republicans and Democrats not to mention mayors of large cities, governors, senators, and congressmen. There are many blacks who have become lawyers, medical doctors, priests (including the Catholic Archbishop of Washington D.C. Wilton Cardinal Gregory, even canonized saints), teachers, college professors, obtained PhDs, achieved the highest ranks in the military, started their own businesses, etc.  For an extensive list of black billionaires, go to 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_billionaires.


See also the article, "29 Notable African Americans Who Helped Change the World" at https://6abc.com/black-history-month-notable-african-americans-most-influential-famous-people/5888312/.

  

Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas   

    Since overcoming the color barrier, blacks have dominated football and basketball while also doing very well in other sports such as baseball, soccer, golf, and tennis.  At one time black major league baseball managers, black pro football head coaches and black quarterbacks in the National Football League were unheard of.  That has certainly changed.

Condoleezza Rice
      Despite racism and segregation blacks have done well in the military, gave their lives, and fought valiantly in World War II, ---as for example the famed Tuskegee Airmen which included three squadrons---, all for the freedom of whites and blacks alike in our wars over the last 160 years.

A few of the World War II Tuskegee Airmen. Black families were more solid then, helping them to excel despite segregation.

    They did it and every black kid in the country can be successful, but that means not depending upon welfare checks (unless desperate and only temporary), not being bitter, but study with remedial tutoring when necessary, hard work, both parents helping their kids to be successful in school and staying out of trouble.  Dr. Ben Carson and other blacks have been preaching that for years.

      There is one common thread in the above black success stories……..EDUCATION.  The successes all took advantage of educational opportunities and worked hard.  As the late Clyde Evans, an educator in southeastern Ohio and a former Ohio state legislator, promoted……..”EDUCATION IS THE PATHWAY OUT OF POVERTY”.  Many scholarships are available at the best colleges in the country for hard working and talented minorities.  State supported community colleges are very economical.    

    Joining a church and being active in it at least every Sunday is very conducive to family stability and keeping the children as well as us all on the straight and narrow.  Solid nuclear families are indispensable if not a prerequisite for black success.  Nevertheless, despite the odds, his single mother heroically helped and inspired Dr. Ben Carson to be a great success.

Susan Rice

        The Effects of Abortion......as of 2018 there have been about 63.1 million abortions since the Roe v Wade decision legalizing the procedure in 1973. The abortion rate for black women (25.1 per 1000 pregnancies) is four times the rate for white women (6.6) (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7436774/). In 2018 of the 619,591 abortions, 39% were white; 34% were black; and 20% were Hispanic. Using the same percentages, gives an estimate of 24.6 million white abortions, 21.5 million black abortions, and 12.6 million Hispanic since the Roe v. Wade Decision.  Would the number of black success stories have been much higher were it not for the evils of abortion, notwithstanding the poorer socioeconomic conditions of black women?  

    Without abortion the black population would have increased by 48% from the current 44.5 million to 66 million or an increase from 13.4% to 19.8% of the total population.  Isn't that collective genocide by choice?  Baby black lives matter too.  The data was taken mainly from the CDC and the Guttmacher Institute.  


      We as a nation must make sure that minorities have equal opportunity. At the same time, blacks must study and work hard to qualify for the best jobs. The civil rights laws must be enforced and to a large extent they are.  Anyone who feels discriminated against in hiring or in treatment in the work place can sue through the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) as part of the Civil Rights Act of 1967.  See https://www.eeoc.gov/federal-sector/filing-formal-complaint.

       Attitudes. In the early 1990s I spoke to a black African and also to a black American. The black African unencumbered by the baggage and heritage of racism stated: “I trust a white until he shows me otherwise”. The black American frankly said: “I don't trust a white until he shows me otherwise”. An attitude of suspicion makes reconciliation difficult.  

    Unfounded and irrational fear due to ignorance rather than hate is a major component. Even my own mother, a top dentist, was afraid to work on black patients.  Should I cancel my dearest mother?  We must learn to trust even if there might be some risk at least at the initial stages of the relationship.

 Sometimes there is oversensitivity and understandably so.  Racism has wounded generations of blacks; naturally such painful wounds and even scars are very sensitive.  At the same time whites can be very insensitive without even realizing it.  Back in the early 1980s I taught a course in Quantitative Methods in the graduate program of business at the Franciscan University of Steubenville.   After the three hour evening class, I gave special help to several students, one of whom was a black woman.  Since she needed more help, I tutored her last so that I could give this student unlimited help without worrying about the time.  I received good student evaluations, but the black woman accused me of being prejudiced.  I felt bad about it and could not understand why until years later.  I realize now that I should have been more sensitive and simply told her why I was helping her last.    

    The Cancellation Craze. George Washington owned slaves; so did Thomas Jefferson and other early presidents.  (see (207) THE FOUNDING AMERICAN IDEALS & RIGHTS BETRAYED: FROM SLAVERY TO ABORTION.......May we make the ideals of our founding fathers a reality in our businesses, communities, and ultimately in our nation

http://paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com/2018/04/207-founding-american-ideals-rights.html). 

    Many of the founding fathers owned slaves. They rationalized justifications, even thinking that enslaving them was civilizing, bringing them the faith, and thus improving their lives as long as the owners treated them well. They were wrong, but were they evil? They were in a sense victims of the culture and mentality of the times. Does that excuse them? No, but does that justify toppling every statue honoring them? We can still recognize the good that they have done and forgive them as we ask God's mercy to forgive us.

    Many if not most great historical figures had significant flaws because they are human........John F. Kennedy, Martin Luther King, and even the great King David of the Old Testament among others. “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her” (John 8:7).  

    It's too easy to judge historical figures based upon what we know now and learned from the mistakes of the past. If we had lived in that era, would we have thought as we do today? The movie, “Gods and Generals” explores the motivations of the protagonists on both sides of the Mason-Dixon Line in the great Civil War (see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OqVVDgPrxOU). Both sides deeply believed that their cause was right, heroically fought, and prayed to the same God for guidance and victory.

    Many of the founders realized that slavery was wrong; they wanted to do something about it, but realized that the southern states would not have joined the union if the Constitution had asserted that all men and women had the right to be free. Southerners really believed that their economy and their good life depended upon the institution of slavery. Thus the founders decided to kick the can down the road, letting future generations deal with it. We as a nation dearly paid for that sin and are continuing to reap the consequences to this day.

    Let's educate our children to realize that there still is racial injustice and they must do their part to change it.  At the same time they should realize how much progress we have made. Martin Luther King, I think, would agree.  He would have never approved of the violence we had last summer when even black owned businesses were looted.  Pray that it does not repeat this summer.

       Critical Race Theory (CRT) is a body of legal scholarship and an academic movement of civil-rights scholars and activists in the United States that seeks to critically examine U.S. law as it intersects with issues of race and to challenge mainstream American liberal approaches to racial justice (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Critical_race_theory.

  To study the negative effects of racism on economic opportunity, housing segregation, quality of education, criminal justice, social mores, the culture of the country, its laws and government policy in order to correct the situation is healthy.  But to harp on all of the negative effects of racism as injustice and oppression by a privileged white class, portraying the situation as hopeless while ignoring black success stories and the great progress that has been made is dangerous.  That approach can encourage hopelessness, helplessness, and bitterness, which discourage effort while breeding crime, violence, and racial strife.

        Should educators and parents tell young black students that they are abused, oppressed, and mistreated until they lose hope, become bitter, and give up trying  to improve one's self and achieve?  Isn't it better to focus on the positive?  Although difficult at times, there is hope; there is opportunity; a black man or woman can be successful if s/he studies and works hard as those mentioned above and many more.      

    Police brutality is real........white on white, white on black. In 2020 a very high 895 persons were shot to death by police officers.......457 whites, 241 blacks, 169 Hispanics, and  28 others (see 

https://www.statista.com/statistics/585152/people-shot-to-death-by-us-police-by-race/).  Out of the 800,000 law enforcement officers in the United States, some bad eggs are unavoidable.  With better selection and better training that number can be minimized. Law enforcement is not bashing heads. Rednecks must be weeded out and never hired in the first place. In a tense situation when his own life is on the line, a police officer may overreact and make a grave mistake in using lethal force. Thus constant training to defuse tense situations without the need for excessive force is essential.

     Blacks must be recruited for the police force in proportion to the minority population in the area. Currently 12.4% of police officers are black while 13.4% of the population of 332 million is black. More neighborhood policing is necessary where police officers and the people work together in an atmosphere of trust.  Bicycles and scooters could be valuable tools. Of course, this is no easy task.  

    Invariably when a person, white or black, is killed in a confrontation with police, he resisted arrest.  We must educate every citizen to cooperate when arrested. Allow the justice system to work as it is designed. Every day police officers risk their lives to maintain order and protect us. In 2020 alone 366 police officers were killed in the line of duty. Let's appreciate the great work of the 99% of the police force who are competent and dedicated to serve the community. Defunding the police can only make it worse for all of us. The subsequent increase in crime is inevitable and automatic.

    Let us remember the words of the great Martin Luther King: “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.” With the help of God we can achieve that dream and we are little by little. 

    Diversity shows the beauty in God's creation. Diversity and different ways of thinking breed creativity as in organizational work teams. Hearts don't change overnight, but we must continue to strive for racial justice. Hear and read the text of his epic speech in its entirety at https://www.npr.org/2010/01/18/122701268/i-have-a-dream-speech-in-its-entirety.  Let us all strive together to achieve that dream.

        The key to reconciliation is forgiveness which derives from Christian love.  We must forgive each other; the excess baggage of racism in resentment, hostility, and hate can destroy all of us.  Applicable here is the message that Fr. Ubald Rugirangoga has been promoting in Rwanda “The Secret of Peace is Forgiveness” (see www.secretofpeace.com) as a pathway to reconciliation in a country torn by two warring tribes in mutual genocide.  Christian love, a genuine concern for the good of the other, can renew the nation and all of us.  

    Let us recall the words of reconciliation of Abraham Lincoln in his second inaugural address as the great Civil War was drawing to a close: "With malice toward none with charity for all with firmness in the right as God gives us to see the right let us strive on to finish the work we are in to bind up the nation's wounds......." (See the Appendix for the complete text).  

      After all, scars of racism with its roots in slavery remain and wounds are still healing albeit many times reopened.  Although we have largely achieved political reconciliation between the free states and the slave states, reconciliation in regard to the bitter wounds of racism is very much a work in progress.  Let us pray for God's help and strive to achieve it.      


APPENDIX


Lincoln's Second Inaugural Address March 4, 1865

"Fellow countrymen: at this second appearing to take the oath of the presidential office there is less occasion for an extended address than there was at the first. Then a statement somewhat in detail of a course to be pursued seemed fitting and proper. Now, at the expiration of four years during which public declarations have been constantly called forth on every point and phase of the great contest which still absorbs the attention and engrosses the energies of the nation little that is new could be presented. The progress of our arms, upon which all else chiefly depends is as well known to the public as to myself and it is I trust reasonably satisfactory and encouraging to all. With high hope for the future no prediction in regard to it is ventured.

"On the occasion corresponding to this four years ago all thoughts were anxiously directed to an impending civil war. All dreaded it ~ all sought to avert it. While the inaugural address was being delivered from this place devoted altogether to saving the Union without war insurgent agents were in the city seeking to destroy it without war ~ seeking to dissolve the Union and divide effects by negotiation. Both parties deprecated war but one of them would make war rather than let the nation survive, and the other would accept war rather than let it perish. And the war came.

"One eighth of the whole population were colored slaves not distributed generally over the union but localized in the southern part of it. These slaves constituted a peculiar and powerful interest. All knew that this interest was somehow the cause of the war. To strengthen perpetuate and extend this interest was the object for which the insurgents would rend the Union even by war while the government claimed no right to do more than to restrict the territorial enlargement of it. Neither party expected for the war the magnitude or the duration which it has already attained. Neither anticipated that the cause of the conflict might cease with or even before the conflict itself should cease. Each looked for an easier triumph and a result less fundamental and astounding. Both read the same Bible and pray to the same God and each invokes His aid against the other. It may seem strange that any men should dare to ask a just God's assistance in wringing their bread from the sweat of other men's faces but let us judge not that we be not judged. The prayers of both could not be answered ~ that of neither has been answered fully. The Almighty has His own purposes. "Woe unto the world because of offenses for it must needs be that offenses come but woe to that man by whom the offense cometh." If we shall suppose that American slavery is one of those offenses which in the providence of God must needs come but which having continued through His appointed time He now wills to remove and that He gives to both North and South this terrible war as the woe due to those by whom the offense came shall we discern therein any departure from those divine attributes which the believers in a living God always ascribe to Him. Fondly do we hope ~ fervently do we pray ~ that this mighty scourge of war may speedily pass away. Yet, if God wills that it continue until all the wealth piled by the bondsman's two hundred and fifty years of unrequited toil shall be sunk and until every drop of blood drawn with the lash shall be paid by another drawn with the sword as was said three thousand years ago so still it must be said 'the judgments of the Lord are true and righteous altogether.'

"With malice toward none with charity for all with firmness in the right as God gives us to see the right let us strive on to finish the work we are in to bind up the nation's wounds, to care for him who shall have borne the battle and for his widow and his orphan ~ to do all which may achieve and cherish a just and lasting peace among ourselves and with all nations."  See https://www.nps.gov/linc/learn/historyculture/lincoln-second-inaugural.htm for a reenactment of this historic speech. 

 

 





Monday, January 28, 2013

(108) Our 2012 Family Newsletter




            We hope that all of you are enjoying the Christmas season.  May it all bring us closer to Christ and His mother.  May the Christ child bless you abundantly in the coming new year.  I was on time with our Christmas greeting and here’s our annual newsletter for 2012.  It will probably be a little long; so I put in subtitles to make it easier to scan and read only what interests you.  I tried to shorten it by putting in links to my blogs to whatever you might be interested in for greater detail for future reading if time permits.  I would suggest that you write an annual family newsletter or individual one if single because a collection of them on disk or hard copy makes for a great family history for posterity after we’re gone.  If you do it; I’ll read it.  Promise!  I’d be most interested.

            Naomi and I went on the March for Life in Washington January 22-23 as we did in and 2010 with a busload of people from our parish and two others of southeastern Ohio along with a few non-Catholics.  The Catholic Women’s Club and a second collection helped to underwrite it.  It’s a great experience. Our entire family went in 2008.  For a detailed account of it, click on http://paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com/2012/01/southeastern-ohio-residents-march-for.html. On the bus I had a long dialogue with a former witch and a Protestant minister.  She seemed to be so sympathetic to the Church and observed how misunderstood Catholics are.  Later she followed her daughter into the Catholic Church.  An even greater experience would be going with a group to pray at an abortion clinic.   

       Abby Johnson, a former director of a Planned Parenthood Abortion Mill (http://www.abbyjohnson.org/) and author of the book, “Unplanned”,  repeated and emphasized in a televised talk that the single most effective thing that one can do for the Pro-life cause is to simply pray silently and peacefully in front of an abortion clinic.   The love showed despite some risk had a profound effect upon her.  Sidewalk counseling is only effective if one is well trained.

            John-Paul, Our First College Graduate. We did a lot of traveling in 2012.  First was our trek by our salvage ’04 Chevy Cavalier (bought at 120,000 miles and now at 205,000) to Ave Maria University near Naples (see http://www.avemaria.edu/ for a virtual tour), Florida for John-Paul’s graduation.  However, Naomi missed it because of the prom and Stephanie was in the middle of final exams.  Stephanie, however, visited him for Holy Week.  John-Paul graduated Magna Cum Laude as a member of the University’s eighth graduation class with a demanding double major in Math and Economics with an emphasis on a Catholic liberal arts education.  Having taken four years of college courses at the University of Rio Grande as a high school student, he was able to transfer many courses that facilitated a double major.  He was also named the Outstanding Economics Student, thus utilizing his full tuition scholarship to the utmost.
      
Jeb Bush, former governor of Florida, was the commencement speaker, a friend of Ave Maria University President H. James Towey (see http://www.avemaria.edu/AboutAveMaria/PresidentsPage.aspx).  He was one of George W. Bush’s senior advisers and member of his senior staff who attended Cabinet meetings as Director of the White House Office of Faith-Based and Community Initiatives from 2002 to 2006.  He was also Blessed Mother Theresa’s counsel in the U.S. for 12 years.  Towey is determined to keep Ave Maria University an authentic Catholic Christ centered campus despite rapid growth with aspirations to be a top academic institution as Notre Dame.  One faculty member says this is very doable because the faculty is behind the concept as opposed to St. Vincent College where he was previously president.  Michael Novak, one of their professors, was decorated by the President of Poland and gave a lecture on social justice at the Presidential Palace (see http://www.avemaria.edu/NewsEvents/News/tabid/92/articleType/ArticleView/articleId/139/Ave-Maria-University-Professor-Decorated-by-President-of-the-Republic-of-Poland.aspx.  On our way back we stopped at St. Augustine, Florida which has a definite Spanish colonial flavor and a well preserved colonial fort.  It’s really worth the stop (see http://www.floridashistoriccoast.com/?gclid=CLnKsuno37QCFUeRPAod63sARQ).

Celebrating the 60th Wedding Anniversary of cousin Martha and Joe Loya at the Byzantine Cathedral in Parma was a highlight for the extended family.  Deacon Greg Loya and his six sons as altar boys all participated in the Mass.  They were married in St. Mary’s Byzantine Catholic Church in East Pittsburgh in May 1952.  Their wedding reception featured a Hungarian gypsy band.  Fred (bless his soul) was a baby and John was a cute ten year old runt who managed to get in on every wedding picture.  Martha and Joe had more than their share of crosses over the years including the tragic death of their only daughter, but stuck it out with faith and courage.  They were rewarded with the joy of having eight grandchildren and one of their four sons being a dedicated priest (Fr. Tom) and another a deacon (Greg).

Another highlight was the 50th Wedding Anniversary of Betty and Bob Foley (Martha’s brother).  Congratulations!  May they have many more anniversaries together.  May we all do as well.  I just got out of the Army in time to attend their wedding in Philadelphia in October 1962. 

Finding His First Job. John-Paul found www.catholicjobs.com to be a great starting point after graduation.  We traveled to Stafford, Virginia at the beginning of June for an interview at a parish Catholic middle school and then to Benedictine Academy, a Catholic military high school in Richmond, a long shot for a guy with no teaching experience or education courses.  John-Paul is a natural teacher, having taught his four year old sister how to read and write while in the first grade, even writing lesson plans.  Before returning, we stayed one day with Stephanie’s classmate, Abby Quinan in Manassas, Virginia, the site of a major Civil War battle for a critical railroad junction.  We had a great time with the Quinan family and doing some sightseeing in town.  Her mother is amazing in home schooling I believe five children and working as a nurse.

When we returned, John-Paul found a newly posted ad for Ville de Marie Academy in Scottsdale, Arizona just outside of Phoenix.  All of a sudden, everything fell into place as often happens when it’s the Lord’s will.  The Headmaster, Mr. J. Hickle , called John-Paul an hour or so after he sent out his e-mail resume.  The next day JP was invited for an interview and given an offer before returning.  So he was able to finish his Accounting course at the University of Rio Grande and play softball in the Church Softball League while preparing to teach Math, Physical Science, Biology, and gym.

Catholic Familyland. At the beginning of July our family helped out at Catholic Familyland (see www.familyland.org) just outside of Steubenville. Prior to that we had to bet fingerprinted and go through an FBI background check by diocesan regulations.  Now they’re going from one extreme to the other.  After a home visit, Stephanie worked for the summer at Thomas Aquinas College in the cafeteria.  We did such tasks as helping to supervise the 500 foot water slide, help out in maintenance and setup for events, bus tables, etc.  It’s great as a family retreat.  About 100 families attended the six days of pray and play. Each had their own cabin with room for 1 family of eleven.  There’s something for all members of the family.  

All attend Mass in the morning with enthusiasm and have religious talks and activities.  The afternoons are filled with water slides, swimming, softball, soccer, basketball, tennis, volleyball, and even chess with tournaments.  Joseph won the chess tournament and John-Paul had his best games ever in the basketball tournament which his team won.  After a catered supper, there’s a rosary & marshmallows bonfire night, an amateur show, a square dance, family banner night, etc.  Later in the evening, the teens have a couple of hours of fun and faith formation with a night of Eucharistic Adoration.  Several confessors hear confessions every afternoon, each under the shade of a tree.  For more detail and information, see www.familyland.com and a future blog of mine at http://paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com.  Their  www.FamilyCatechism.com has the complete Catechism of the Catholic Church.  Then there's a weekly guide to teach the faith at home, www.FamilyCatechesis.com because the primary educators in the Faith are the parents.  In addition, www.familylandtv.com provides a wide selection of television programs to watch at your convenience instead of being tied down to a particular time.

Westward Ho!  At the beginning of August, we helped John-Paul buy a salvage 2010 Honda Civic and decided to help him to drive it to Phoenix as well as assist him in finding an apartment and moving in.  The trip was so long (almost three days) that I thought at times we were in a covered wagon.  Finally, we made the descent form a high plateau of the Rocky Mountain chain.  It’s almost providential that our good friends, Richard & Celina Koczwara and their beautiful family live in Mesa, another suburb of Phoenix and operates an 11 room motel (see http://www.desertrosemotelaz.com/).  We had a wonderful stay with them and thoroughly enjoyed their traditional Polish hospitality for almost a week while looking for an apartment with John-Paul.  This city in the middle of the desert is beautiful, especially during winter, but it was an oven when we were there……115 F…….still more comfortable than the muggy 90 F in the east.  One afternoon we had a fascinating visit to the Goldfield 1890s vintage ghost town a half hour away (see http://www.goldfieldghosttown.com/).

John-Paul’s school, Ville de Maria Academy (see http://www.villedemarieacademy.org/), a Catholic college prep school with only about 75 students, has only a handful of students in each class, great for individual attention in its classical liberal arts curriculum.  Its small faculty is very dedicated to make the school Christ centered with the faith integrated into all of its courses while still being very good academically.  We’re very happy that John-Paul has a key role in this very noble enterprise that has so much potential.  Next year it will occupy the closed St. Daniel School.  With more space in a parish environment, it hopes to expand and be better able to compete with the excellent charter schools in the area. 

Visiting Stephanie at Thomas Aquinas College in Santa Paula, California.  Finally, we drove the car across the desert with its occasional almost blinding sandstorms into California to visit Stephanie at Thomas Aquinas College in Santa Paula just outside of northwest Los Angeles.  The scenery there is breathtaking, being nestled in a bowl surrounded by mountains with a newly constructed church standing out.  That together with the landscaping, ponds, gardens, & an orange grove plus Spanish colonial type architecture makes it one of the most beautiful campuses in the world.  The functioning pendulum and statues of great scholars further gives a great learning atmosphere.  Click on http://www.thomasaquinas.edu/ for a slide show on its home page.  Naomi was already there for a two week summer great books program for high school seniors. 
 
The beautiful church recently constructed dominates the campus.  Much of any Mass there is in Latin.  We attended one Liturgy during the week in the old Tridentine Mass completely in Latin.  I thought I was in a time capsule going back to the 1950s as a kid.  They have a staff of full time priests to attend to the spiritual development of the students as well.  Most of the students attend daily Mass and each dorm has prayer to end the day. 
     
Being ranked among America’s Top Colleges by the U.S. News & World Report, Forbes, and the Princeton Review, Thomas Aquinas College is probably the best Catholic liberal arts college in the country (See http://www.thomasaquinas.edu/about/press-releases).  The entire very demanding standard curriculum for all graduates is based upon reading the great books in the original……Aristotle, Homer, Plato, Augustine, Aquinas with some readings in the original Latin, Shakespeare, Euclid with the same proofs & propositions, Einstein, etc.  Reading and discussing these pioneering works puts the student in the shoes of the pioneer intellectual who encountered obstacles, road blocks, and contradictions.   The student goes through the same discovering and reasoning processes as the original scholars to obtain insights and arrive at the truth in the advancement of knowledge throughout history…….Theology, Philosophy, Mathematics, and the empirical sciences with labs.  

The focus in this Christ centered institution is upon searching for the true, the good, and the beautiful in God’s creation.  The small classes (less than 20 students) with a total enrollment of 358 are based upon the Socratic Method (mainly discussion) with an emphasis upon rhetoric and developing the mind.  Classroom discussion even spills over into the cafeteria after class. 
    
Stephanie will have a general liberal arts degree quite equivalent to majors in Philosophy and Theology.  Many of their graduates teach and do parish work.  Others go on to graduate school to pursue a variety of specialties……law, business, medicine, education, etc.  Tragically, one of Stephanie’s friends there, Andrew Kent Moore ended up as a martyr for the pro-life cause in the Walk Across America.  You can read the details on my blog at http://paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com/2012_07_01_archive.html.  With each home visit, we see in Stephanie marked intellectual and spiritual growth.  She’s our scholar, a perfect fit for Thomas Aquinas College and she loves it.  In addition to the academic, Stephanie works 13 hours a week since they don’t give academic scholarships as such; participates in social functions; and takes part in different intramural sports.  Her high school varsity experience makes her a standout in basketball.

Back to Kent State.  After flying back to Columbus minus John-Paul and Stephanie, it was back to school for Naomi and Joseph.  In September Jaga and I attended the celebration of the 50th anniversary of the founding of the Kent State University Catholic Newman Center.  Needless to say, the campus looked so different and it was great seeing old friends, especially Janet and Bob Stadulis who were wonderful to us, inviting us for Christmas, Easter, and Thanksgiving.  I wrote about it and the crucial importance of Newman Center or Club on the secular campus in my blog at http://paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com/2012/09/the-newman-clubcenter-catholic-presence.html.
   
The visit of the International Pilgrim Virgin Statue in October and later the visit of the Pilgim Image of Our Lady of Guadalupe in December (sponsored by the Knights of Columbus) were among the highlights of our parish devotions.  Our pastor combined it with Eucharistic Adoration for 24 hours each time.  It was such a privilege to be involved in its promotion.  To our great surprise, our local newspaper not only published much of my article on the first visit, but also published a photo of the statue in color on the front page.  For greater detail including fascinating facts about Our Lady of Fatima and Our Lady of Guadalupe, see my blogs #95-96 for the former and #104-106 for the latter at http://paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com.
   
Naomi is a senior, her fourth year in the PSO program at the University of Rio Grande where she simultaneously receives high school and college credits for each course she takes there.  It’s still seven straight semesters of all A’s (one A-).  She continues on the Swimming Team for her base high school, Gallia Academy and hopes to make the district championship meet in her specialties of breast stroke and the butterfly.  Naomi works as a cashier nine hours a week at the El Toril Mexican Restaurant in town and three hours a week with the local Municipal Court. 
       
In November we made a campus visit to Franciscan University of Steubenville, a very Christ centered Catholic university.  This is one of the few Catholic Colleges that has remained very faithful to their original missions.  John Paul’s Ave Maria University and Stephanie’s Thomas Aquinas College are of the same mold.  Naomi plans to get a Bachelor Degree in Nursing and then go to graduate school to become a midwife.  We ran into one of the leaders of the Diocesan Youth Rally who is on the swimming team.  So she arranged to meet the Swimming coach and observe one of their practices.  Naomi is only a few seconds within the times of their best swimmers.  She fit right in and got a partial scholarship to boot.

Joseph is a sophomore, his first year in the same PSO program as Naomi at the University of Rio Grande.  The baby of the family is already the tallest of all of us.  He plays basketball and tennis in the spring for Gallia Academy.  He’s also one of the top members of his high school’s Quiz Bowl team.  He is an avid reader, subscribing to the Weekly Standard and regularly reads the National Review online.

Jaga continues as a full time mother since we have two kids still in the nest and the other two come home during the Christmas and summer breaks.  Our family is blessed.  That frees her to volunteer as a nurse in the Free Clinic we helped to found, to work in a soup kitchen, to be a member of the Catholic Women’s Club, and other activities as daily Mass and reading the Divine Office each day.  Because Jaga is a stay at home Mom, I can get involved in considerable volunteer work. 

Paul continues as a Eucharistic Minister to the sick.  I have learned the value of suffering in becoming closer to God and have the opportunity to unite one’s cross with the Lord’s cross, offering it all up as a dynamic prayer for the Church, the missions, for our country, and our loved ones.  In this way the sick person can be more valuable than the President!  The Knights of Columbus is also a great opportunity for fellowship and service.  I continue on the Steering Committee of the Diocesan Men’s Day of Renewal (see our Conference Blog by clicking on www.diosteubmen.org).  Fr. Tom Loya has been one of our speakers and has four articles on that blog. I’m also vice-president of our free clinic (see Blogs #90 & 91 of http://paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com. 
 
Jaga and I are advisers to the Catholic Newman Club of the University of Rio Grande where I am Professor Emeritus and a member of the Chaplaincy Board.  With what time is left, I like to write for the Gallipolis Daily Tribune and my blog at http://paulrsebastianphd.blogspot.com.  Take a look at the titles; I think that you’ll like at least some of them, especially Blog #102 on a detailed analysis of the unsustainability of the National Debt.  Being busier than ever in retirement is a lot better than becoming a couch potato and wither away.  Retirement is such an opportunity to serve on one’s own terms and pace while keeping sharp mentally and intellectually and utilizing past experience and skills acquired over the years for the benefit of God’s people.  On the fun side, I follow the Pittsburgh Pirates and Pittsburgh Steelers closely along with Rio Grande sports.  To keep in shape I try to take daily half hour walks and a weekly mile swim.  Changing strokes and keeping a good rhythm makes it rather easy. 
    
 So 2012 took us from a beach on the Atlantic Ocean at St Augustine to another beach on the Pacific Ocean at Ventura as we continue to carry on with our family, aspiring to grow spiritually and doing our part for the Church and the Community.  When you die, may the world be just a little bit better because of you.  God bless.